improve performance of diffs (#32393)

This has two major changes that significantly reduce the amount of work
done for large diffs:

* Kill a running git process when reaching the maximum number of files
in a diff, preventing it from processing the entire diff.
* When loading a diff with the URL param `file-only=true`, skip loading
stats. This speeds up loading both hidden files of a diff and sections
of a diff when clicking the "Show More" button.

A couple of minor things from profiling are also included:

* Reuse existing repo in `PrepareViewPullInfo` if head and base are the
same.

The performance impact is going to depend heavily on the individual diff
and the hardware it runs on, but when testing locally on a diff changing
100k+ lines over hundreds of files, I'm seeing a roughly 75% reduction
in time to load the result of "Show More"

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Co-authored-by: wxiaoguang <wxiaoguang@gmail.com>
(cherry picked from commit 7dcccc3bb19655a6f83dd495ffc332708d0c8678)

routers/web/repo/pull.go

@@ -614,12 +614,12 @@ func PrepareViewPullInfo(ctx *context.Context, issue *issues_model.Issue) *git.C
 	var headBranchSha string
 	// HeadRepo may be missing
 	if pull.HeadRepo != nil {
-		headGitRepo, err := gitrepo.OpenRepository(ctx, pull.HeadRepo)
+		headGitRepo, closer, err := gitrepo.RepositoryFromContextOrOpen(ctx, pull.HeadRepo)
 		if err != nil {
-			ctx.ServerError("OpenRepository", err)
+			ctx.ServerError("RepositoryFromContextOrOpen", err)
 			return nil
 		}
-		defer headGitRepo.Close()
+		defer closer.Close()
 
 		if pull.Flow == issues_model.PullRequestFlowGithub {
 			headBranchExist = headGitRepo.IsBranchExist(pull.HeadBranch)
@@ -966,6 +966,7 @@ func viewPullFiles(ctx *context.Context, specifiedStartCommit, specifiedEndCommi
 		MaxLineCharacters:  setting.Git.MaxGitDiffLineCharacters,
 		MaxFiles:           maxFiles,
 		WhitespaceBehavior: gitdiff.GetWhitespaceFlag(ctx.Data["WhitespaceBehavior"].(string)),
+		FileOnly:           fileOnly,
 	}
 
 	if !willShowSpecifiedCommit {